a]:text-blue-mid [&>a]:no-underline [&>a]:hover:shadow-lightmode px-5 sm:px-4 font-medium”>In the intervening decades, they married, raised children, built careers, got divorced, and lived alone. But they remained connected and always thought they might end up as housemates once more.

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On being roommates 60 years ago

a]:text-blue-mid [&>a]:no-underline [&>a]:hover:shadow-lightmode px-5 sm:px-4 font-medium”>Mathes: The following year we were in different rooms. But every night, after everyone else was asleep, Susan and I would sit on the stairs and sing show tunes.

Susan Dannenberg, left, and Michele Mathes in 1971, five years after they met in the Delta Phi Epsilon sorority at Penn.
Susan Dannenberg, left, and Michele Mathes in 1971, five years after they met in the Delta Phi Epsilon sorority at Penn.Courtesy of Michele Mathes

On their marriages

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On difficult years of friendship

a]:text-blue-mid [&>a]:no-underline [&>a]:hover:shadow-lightmode px-5 sm:px-4 font-medium”>Mathes: My life was going swimmingly at the same time that Susan was struggling. So that made it very difficult. I was hurt. Susan was not in touch, but she was still Susan, and I was still me.

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a]:text-blue-mid [&>a]:no-underline [&>a]:hover:shadow-lightmode px-5 sm:px-4 font-medium”>Dannenberg: My concern is the flip side — I worry that I’m going to make a misstep, and Michele’s going to get angry.

Susan Dannenberg and Michele Mathes prepare dinner in their kitchen. They're learning to meld their lives after years of living alone.
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a]:text-blue-mid [&>a]:no-underline [&>a]:hover:shadow-lightmode px-5 sm:px-4 font-medium”>This story is part of a series about life partners across the Philadelphia area.